- Do you feel as though you are safe here?
- Are you being respected by the staff?
- Are you as comfortable as possible?
- Are you worried by anything?
- What do you think of the staff?
- Is there a staff member you like in particular?
- Have you made any friends here?
- How long does it take a staff member to answer the call button?
When asking these questions you should put yourself in your loved one’s position. If you were in a nursing home are these the questions you would like your family to be asking you? Make sure you ask these questions in a reserved manor. Don’t make your senior feel as though they’re being interrogated. Simply find out some of your loved one’s opinions of the nursing home in order to determine whether the treatment at this facility is suitable for him or her.
If your senior is truly concerned about some aspects of living in a particular nursing home, you should be able to tell rather quickly by asking questions such as these. In that event, it might be time to speak to some of the administrators of that nursing home, or consider moving your loved one to a different nursing home altogether. Just be sure to put your loved one’s needs first, and find out what they would prefer to do.